Taking advantage of a day as important as August 8 (International Women’s Orgasm Day!), from Bijoux Indiscrets we encourage you to self-discover yourself. The first step to know how to masturbate is knowing what you’re dealing with!
Grab a mirror and take a look at that one special place that makes you see stars. It may be shocking at first but I promise you it’s worth it.
The visible part of your genitals (the “outside bit”) is not actually your vagina, but your vulva. It is comprised of your labia, clitoris, urethra and vaginal opening, whereas your vagina is the tract that connects your vulva and cervix.
1. I HAVE A CLIT AND I’M NOT AFRAID TO USE IT!
At the end of the day, it’s the only organ devoted exclusively to pleasure and us women are the only ones to have one. 8 in 10 women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.
In reality, the clitoris takes on an inverted V shape and spans your entire vagina. A network of 8,000 interconnected nerve endings covering the entire pelvic area, the clitoris is approximately 10 cm long and 6 cm wide. It has many super powers and, despite being tucked away out of sight, has the ability to make you see stars.
Find out which parts you like to be touched by touching yourself (hint: clitoris!), and how to reach orgasm by yourself. 30.1% of women consider the orgasms they have during masturbation to be better than those they experience with a partner (Fiction vs Reality in Sex). The climax you feel from pleasuring yourself is more dynamic and gives you control of the entire situation: you can wait until you are 100% aroused (leading to more powerful orgasms) and can focus on your erogenous zones* (hint: clitoris!), caressing them at the right speed, pressure and with the perfect motions.
“30.1% of women consider the orgasms they have during masturbation to be better than those they experience with a partner”
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Remember that you don’t only feel pleasure here, but your brain also plays a vital role to ensure that you enjoy the experience to the full. So relax and enjoy.
You have a whole range of tools: your fingers, vibrating bullets, sex toys… Start with your fingers caressing the clitoris. Combine this movement with inserting your fingers in your vagina. Remember that the clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings, and that 8 in 10 women need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.
Nevertheless, always use caution as it is quite sensitive. You can play with it, rub it with your fingers or flick it gently. Be creative and don’t forget about the other parts of your vulva. The trick is in your rhythm – synchronise your hands.
4. ADD A SEX TOY
Twenty One by Bijoux Indiscrets it’s the world’s first Vibrating Diamond. It has the perfect shape and size for precise stimulation. Silent, discreet, waterproof and… very powerful!
Enjoy: Use the side surface to stimulate the small labia and clitoris at the same time. Experiment by applying different pressure
Massage: Use the top flat surface to stimulate the labia, vulva and other erogenous zones of your body.
Focus: Use the rounded edge to stimulate your clitoris with precision or to stimulate the external entrance of your vagina.