How to use a vibrator

Before we get started, here are some fun historical facts about vibrators and sex toys!

Did you know, sex toys have been found throughout human history, even in some of the earliest years, the oldest known sex toy dates back almost 30,000 years!


Masturbation has not always been taboo, in fact it has been depicted in plays, art, stories and even found on prehistoric rock paintings! So, no need to feel shame about our culture鈥檚 new stance on masturbation! Enjoy your pleasure without guilt.


Some of the first vibrators were used to address hysteria in women, the original treatment being manual stimulation, but eventually two physicians created an 18kg device that was then used for treatment. We have come a VERY long way for pleasure!

The first domestic vibrator was sold by Sears with other appliances like the tea kettle and toaster.聽聽


Finally, the world鈥檚 most expensive sex toy costs $1.3 million! The Pearl Royale was created by an Australian jeweler, it consists of platinum and pink and white diamonds!

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How to use a bullet vibrator

Bullet vibrators are typically intended for pinpointed pleasure to a specific area. These vibrators are usually used externally, but that does not mean they cannot be used in different areas.

How to use a bullet vibrator step-by-step:聽

We recommend partnering your toy with a water-based lubricant, something like our finger play lubricant to maximize comfort and pleasure. The best thing about a bullet is its size, because it鈥檚 so small and discrete it allows for so many more ways to play.聽


You can use a bullet to spice up a massage by placing it on specific erogenous zones or spice up oral sex by placing the bullet under the jaw/chin to make your mouth vibrate.聽


Bullets are also incredible ways to take your favorite sex position to the next level, our favorite example is an enhanced doggy style position. Where you get in doggy style and use the bullet to stimulate the clitoris!


Overall, bullets are great first toys or additions to the collection because they are versatile and powerful!


  1. Apply a water-based lubricant.
  2. Start at a low setting.
  3. Place the toy on the vulva, and gently glide it along the anatomy.
  4. Try making circles or applying pressure.
  5. Move to the clitoris and enjoy.

More about how to use a vibrating bullet:聽

Of our listed bullets, our favorite is the vibrating diamond, because of the shape and look. Not only is this toy gorgeous but in design, it has the most pinpointed tip, that centralizes the vibrations making them more intense. Another fun aspect is Twenty-One makes for a very comfortable seat, especially when you are working from home.聽


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How to use a G-spot vibrator:聽

A G-spot vibrator is easily recognizable by its shape, that being a C-curve. Usually, G-spot vibrators have a hard C-curve, but that is not always the case. These vibrators are usually intended for internal use, but like any toy, it depends on your pleasure and how you want to play. Partner your toy with some lubricant, like our Hyaluronic Acid lubricant, for long lasting fun.聽

How to use a G-spot vibrator step-by-step:聽

G-spot vibrators are a great way to discover what angles and positions drive you wild. These vibes are fantastic tools if you are trying to squirt! That is because the C-curve rubs against and stimulates the erectile tissue on the superior wall of the vagina.聽


This pulling motion partnered with the pressure from the shape makes for intense orgasms that often leads to squirting. It is great to start slow, using them once you are already turned on.聽


Try starting with your bullet or with your G-spot toy on the outside of your body. You can stimulate your nipples, breasts, inner thighs, clitoris, and any other partner of the body.聽


Once you feel your arousal building, apply lubricant to the vulva, vagina and the toy itself; remember, the wetter, the better! Then begin slowly and explore different angles and pressures until you find exactly what you love.聽


  1. Apply lube.
  2. Start with a bullet or fingers.
  3. Apply more lube to your toy and vagina.
  4. Start slow, bringing the toy inside and explore patterns and vibrations.
  5. For added pleasure try different positions that allow you to apply gentle pressure to the superior wall of the vagina (Sitting up with legs open or froggy legged position).

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聽A special shout to Lelo鈥檚 Enigma as this dual-action G-spot toy joins suction technology with the stimulating shape of the G-spot toys.


This allows for dual action pleasure, that will intensify orgasms! Be aware, suction toys require a lot of lube and they need time for finding the right placement on the clitoris. You may need to try the toy a few times before you get it but enjoy the journey!聽


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How to use a crystal dildo

Crystal dildos are powerful tools in sexual healing and pleasure. This is because these toys combine temperature, weight and spiritual properties found in crystals to enhance pleasure and sexual enjoyment.聽

How to use a crystal dildo step-by-step

Each dildo is made of a crystal specific to targeting aspects of sexuality, for example, rose quartz has healing properties especially related to the heart and love.聽


These toys are meant for internal use, specifically the vagina. Crystal dildos such as these partner well with any lubricant, but just be intentional where you place the lube so you do not lose your grip. Another tip would be to partner this product with a stimulating serum orliquid vibrator if you want to up the intensity.聽


The biggest benefit if you are not one for crystals is the temperature and weight of the toy. Because crystals keep cool, this creates a contrast between your body and the toy, which can be very stimulating. If you prefer a body temperature toy, just place the crystal in warm water for some time, dry, and then use.聽


While the weight adds an extra layer to the experience and can enhance the fantasy if you are thinking of someone while you use the toy.聽


  1. Ground yourself, take a few deep breaths
  2. Be present
  3. Apply lube and/or a stimulating gel
  4. Start with your fingers, to connect with your body then move to the toy
  5. Try using the toy hands free, use your pillows to hold your crystal dildo in place and let your hands linger across your body

More about how to use a crystal dildo

This is an excellent tool for sexual manifestation and sex magic. Not only do orgasms have the power to enhance our mood but they can allow us to unlock our potential when it comes to sex or happiness. Crystal dildos have the power not only to heal, but to enhance your own sexual magic and potential.聽

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How to use a wand vibrator

Wands are some of the most recognizable of the sex toys, we have seen them across mainstream media. Wands have evolved from hulking, plug-in toys to lighter, smaller and still incredibly powerful cordless vibrators. They are a great way to explore external stimulation, especially if you like deep and intense vibes.聽

How to use a vibrating wand step-by-step聽

are very powerful vibes, this is because they are usually with a plug, meaning they can draw a greater source of power for the toy.聽


As mentioned, they are typically used externally, but nowadays many companies have 鈥渃aps鈥 that you place over the toy that allow you to adapt your toy to your needs. These caps come in shapes that allow you to use your wand for G-spot stimulation, more focused clitoral stimulation and even a wing shape to massage penises! Making the wand a great option for partnered pleasure and exploration.聽


There is even sex furniture that has wand 鈥渉olds鈥 so you can go hands free!!聽

The best way to use your wand is creatively, with lots of lube and remember to start low. If you start high, then you run the risk of desensitizing yourself to the intensity temporarily.聽


  1. Start with a low setting.
  2. Apply some lube or stimulating gel.
  3. Let the wand take care of the rest, or a partner if you are into that.

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Fun fact, some sex toys are app controlled, allowing for distance play, partnered play, or better functionality! Dodson by Vibio does all of that, making it the perfect toy to introduce if your partner is on the fence about toys or if you find yourself in a distance situation. Plus, Dodson comes with a library of erotic stories that help create the mood!


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How to use a suction vibrator

Suction toys have quickly risen to popularity after their introduction in the past decade! It鈥檚 no wonder these powerful toys offer powerful and unique sensations that allow for even more clitoral pleasure, but did you know these toys can be used on the nipples as well? This is an excellent way to incorporate foreplay in your masturbation routine.聽

How to use a suction vibrator step-by-step聽

Suction toys are not what I would recommend for beginners, and this is because you need lots of lube and patience. To start, you should try to be aroused first, this is because when we are turned on the clitoris reveals more of itself and swells, allowing for a better suction and sensation.聽


Try starting with a bullet to build the pleasure, and after about 5-10 minutes apply lots of lube and then introduce your suction toy. Start at the lowest setting until you are comfortable and have 鈥渟ealed鈥 your clitoris into the toy.聽


Often this is a two-handed job that requires some movement and intentional placement, but do not get discouraged. Take your time and try using your suction toy around your vulva while you gauge the intensities. Once you have found the pleasurable position you can try playing with the intensities.聽


Also, be mindful of your breathing, slow and controlled breath with make for a faster, and more intense orgasm.聽


  1. Start with lube and a toy/fingers.
  2. Once turned on, use one hand to pull back the vulva and the other to move the mouth of the toy in place, starting on a low-setting.
  3. Adjust and create a seal between your clitoris and the toy.
  4. Enjoy.

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Suction toys are great bath partners, something about the water creates a unique pleasure experience. It鈥檚 also important to note, each brand has a different suction technology, Lelo for example, uses SONAR waves for deeper pleasure! While Sila focuses more on an oral sex sensation. Both are great ways to explore your pleasure, especially when you may be 鈥渂urnt out鈥 by your wand or bullet.

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